The Thrill of Waiting for a Response
In relationships, sometimes all we can do is wait patiently for an answer—and it's during these moments when our feelings become amplified. One female friend recently shared her thoughts on this phenomenon—that when things are going well between two people, there's an exciting thrill associated with waiting for a response; but if not, then it becomes more worrisome instead.
Feb. 05, 2023 11:41AM
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A young woman anxiously looking at her phone while waiting for a response from someone she likes
It’s no secret that the feeling of being in love is often accompanied by a sense of anticipation and excitement. Recently, one female friend shared her thoughts on this phenomenon, noting that “when you’re waiting for a response from someone you like, it feels like when things are going well in your relationship. But if you’re sick with worry while waiting for their reply, it means things aren’t going so great.” It’s true that the act of waiting can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking at the same time. On one hand, it can bring about feelings of hope and optimism; on the other hand, it can cause anxiety and doubt. While there may not be any clear-cut answers to how to navigate these conflicting emotions, understanding them is an important part of any relationship. For those who are experiencing unrequited love or simply feel anxious while waiting for a response from someone they care about, take comfort in knowing that you are not alone in this experience. Everyone has been through this before—it is just part of life. Whether or not things work out in the end doesn’t really matter; what matters most is learning how to cope with these moments as best as possible and understanding that sometimes we just have to wait patiently until we get our answer.